衣冠不整，则宾者不肃。—— 《管子·形式解》 管仲曾说过：接待客人时衣帽不整齐，客人的态度也就不恭敬。

在孩子长大成人的过程中，如果家长能注重自身仪表和礼仪，并以身作则，则直接影响到孩子待人接物的态度，这是非常重要的。

Allysa：On Mondays, I wear red shoes and red socks.
On Tuesdays, I wear black shoes and black socks.
On Wednesdays, I wear blue shoes and blue socks. Allysa：星期一，我会穿红色的鞋和红色的袜子。 星期二，我会穿黑色的鞋和黑色的袜子。 星期三，我会穿蓝色的鞋和蓝色的袜子。 Hank：So, today you are wearing white shoes and pink socks.
Hank：所以今天你穿的是白色的鞋和粉色的袜子。 Allysa：Today is Thursday. I wear white shoes and pink socks on Thursdays.
Allysa：今天是周四，我穿白色的鞋和粉色的袜子。

请放弃那些减分的着装搭配！

听过一个故事，某家公司的一名员工因车祸身亡，由于事发突然，同事们非常悲伤。其葬礼在公司附近的天主教教堂举行，离公司步行大约15分钟左右，Jack约了死者生前好友Michael同去参加葬礼。当天，Michael衣着黑西装、白衬衫、黑领带，一身标准的葬礼服装，当路过擦鞋摊档时，他要求擦鞋，笔者十分不解他为什么还要擦已经干净的皮鞋。Michael慢慢的答道，剩下这15分钟的路程是他与死者走的最后一段路，皮鞋必须百分之百的干净，这是对死者的尊重。 从古至今，着装（attire）一直都是一个人的身份、气质、内在素质的无言的介绍信。拥有合适的着装，则所能传达给别人的情感与意蕴甚至不是用语言所能替代的。 在社交场合，得体的服饰是一种礼貌，一定程度上直接影响着人际关系的和谐。下面请拿起小本本记录下，着装礼仪（dress etiquette）与服饰搭配（dress collocation）需要注意的几点。

The Principal of Dress 着装的原则 We know that different people prefer different preferences, so their ways of dress vary. 我们知道不同人有不同的喜好倾向，所以穿着习惯也各有不同。 Even so, we still have some basic principles to follow according to people’s aesthetics standard and aesthetic psychology. 尽管如此，通过研究人们的美学标准和审美心理，我们仍然总结出几种穿着的基本原则。

Ⅰ. Clean and tidy 整洁 Clean wearing can impress others a positive feeling. At the same time, you express your respect and attention for this social activity. 干净的衣服能给他人一个很良好的印象。与此同时，能够变现你对此次特别活动的尊重和关注程度。

Ⅱ. Personality 个性 This means that we should set up our personal image in the social occasions. To reach this objective, we must understand ourselves deeply and correctly, choose the best dress that enhance our elegant temperament. 这意味着我们在社会场景中，需要建立个人形象。为了达到这个目标，我们必须深刻且准确地了解自己，选择最适合的能够提升我们优雅气质的着装。

Ⅲ. The principle of T.O.P T.O.P原则 T.O.P means time, place and occasion. That is to say when you decide to wear a beautiful garment, you must take the time, place, occasion into consideration. T.O.P意为时间，地点和场合。就是说当你决定穿一件漂亮的衣服，你必须充分地考量时间、地点和场合是否合适。 After all, a beautiful dress does not fit every time. 毕竟，一件漂亮的衣服并不适合任何场景。

The principle of time include the change of morning and evening in one day and spring, summer, autumn and winter in one year. 时间原则包括一天早晚和一年四季。 This principle means environment. That is to say different environment require corresponding garments. 这个原则指环境。就是说不同环境要求我们要有相应的服装。 This principle means atmosphere. That is to say our dress should harmonious with the atmosphere at that time and that place. 这个原则指气氛。也就是说我们的穿着需要同时与相应时间地点的气氛相协调。

When you choose the color Ⅰ. Age 年龄 People have the right to dress himself up no matter he is younger or old. But he must think about his age when choosing the color. The younger can dress more bright-colored and lovely as well as the older should dressed in a grave, refined and implicative cloth. 人们不论人们年轻与否，都有权利依照自己的意愿选择服装。但是，他必须在选择时，将衣服的颜色考虑进来。年轻的人可以穿更为艳丽的、可爱的颜色服装，上年纪的人亦应该穿严肃干练和含蓄的服装。 Ⅱ. Figure 体型 For the tall: the deep and single color should be better. Light, bright and too many colors both give us an outspread feelings, and make the dress person taller and bigger. 对于身高较高的人：深沉且单一的颜色是更好的。而明亮的颜色则会使高大的人更加高大。 For the short: the light and soft color should be better, and the consistent color of both coat and trousers can make people look slender. 对于身高较矮的人：明亮柔和的色调是更好的选择，选择颜色一致的外套和裤子会使得整个人看起来袖长纤细。

For the fat: the cold color could be perfect. 对于肥胖的人：尽量选择冷色调会有出奇的效果。 For the thin: the light and bright color could be the right choice. Dark or black color may make the thin look thinner. 对于偏瘦的人：明亮的颜色会是正确的选择。而深色或者黑色会使人看起来更加消瘦。 Ⅲ. Work 工作 To give others a feeling of trustworthy, deep color is the best choice, such as bank clerk. 如果需要给他人一种值得信赖的感觉，建议选择深色调，就像银行职员。 To make other others feel scared and pure, light color would be perfect, such as doctor wearing white coat. 如果想给人一种敬畏和纯粹的感觉，可以选择浅色调，就像医生穿着白色工作服。

想必你已经学会了以上这些穿着礼仪的技巧，不过更重要的是：多读书和学习，才能获得一定的文化修养和审美能力，即所谓“腹有诗书气自华”；同时，要有运动健美的素质，通过运动健身，获得美好的形体是着装美的天然条件。